CATEVA CUVINTE DESPRE OLANDA
Am
observat ca textul dedicat Zilei Nationale a fost indelung dezbatut in
comentariile voastre. Mi-a atras atentia opinia unui domn,profesor
cred,care dorea sa discute despre valori si nonvalori precum si despre
promovarea acestora. Cu permisiunea sotului meu as dori sa va prezint
cateva aspecte care ne-au atras in mod repetat atentia de cand am sosit
aici,in Olanda.
Imi asum riscul de a deranja cateva persoane spunand simplu:toti
oamenii sunt egali. Pe acest fapt de bazeaza reusita societatii
olandeze,dragii mei. Profesorii fac babysitting dupa program,sau dau
meditatii,fara a considera ca acest fapt ii denigreaza in vreun fel.
Chelneritele din cafenele sunt de regula studente la teatru sau
conservator si in timp ce servesc clientii desfasoara si un program de
entertainment foarte bine pus la punct. Conversatia cu acestea este de
la egal la egal pentru ca se spune asa: maine imi poti servi tu mie
cafeaua. Nimic mai adevarat. TOATA lumea lucreaza. Adolescentii nu bat
mingea in fata blocului ci de la varsta de 13 ani lucreaza in
supermarketuri sau in diferite magazine,INDIFERENT cat de instarite
sunt familiile din care provin. Acest lucru se desfasoara dupa orele de
curs si in weekenduri. Se deplaseaza cu bicicletele oriunde au nevoie
sa mearga,indiferent daca este vorba de scoala,petreceri sau discoteca.
Trebuie sa va explic foarte clar un lucru. Statul a fost motorul
acestui bun mers al lucrurilor si abia apoi oamenii,care au fost
invatati si educati cum sa priveasca lucrurile. S-au creat reguli pe
care nu le incalca nimeni,nici cei mai bogati sau mai celebri. Toata
lumea “sta la coada” si isi asteapta randul. Fiecare om este educat de
mic sa ii respecte pe cei din jur. Nimeni nu are pile,nu da spaga ,nu
se baga in fata. Sunt mandri de regulile lor si STIU exact ca pentru
a-si pastra aceasta libertate aproape fara margini,trebuie sa le
respecte pas cu pas.
Vreti sa va povestesc ce face o sotie de fotbalist sau de presedinte de
club in Olanda? Haideti sa o iau de sus in jos. Sotia boss-ului cel
mare lucreaza cu copiii ce au nevoi speciale,inadaptare sociala sau
cazuri de adhd. Era de asteptat daca te gandesti ca Bossul insusi se
imbraca in Sinterklaas-ceva gen Mos Nicolae-si ia pe genunchii lui toti
copilasii celor din cadrul clubului. Sotia “numarului 2″ tine ore de
aerobic in fiecare luni,cu toate sotiile jucatorilor si ale membrilor
staffului. Organizeaza toate evenimentele si lupta pentru a crea un
grup unit si puternic. Aparent nu e mare lucru DAR este lesne de
inteles ca in acest fel grupul baietilor este mult mai unit. Aceasta
extraordinara doamna s-a oferit in nenumarate randuri sa ne ajute si cu
copiii cand avem nevoie si acest lucru s-a si intamplat,chiar in cazul
nostru.Sotiile jucatorilor sunt femei obisnuite,care in primul rand se
ocupa de educatia copiilor,dar au si diferite joburi. Indiferent daca
vand intr-un magazin sau sunt profesoare,nivelul conversatiei este
ridicat ,au prestanta si sunt naturale.
Dragii mei,iata ca valoarea umana nu este data neaparat de functia pe
care o ai. Nu doar profesorii sau medicii sunt valori si nu numai ei
merita sa fie tratati la un anumit nivel. Fiecare om are o valoare
extraordinara si indreptat in directia corecta poate aduce multe
satisfactii. Eu as propune sa ne tratam cu mai mult respect si sa
intelegem ca deocamdata avem nevoie de mult ajutor,mai ales in plan
social dar si in cel educational. Si din cate am vazut pe aici,educatia
si cultura generala vin de acasa si nu de la scoala. Scoala are rolul
de a aduce un plus si a incuraja si dezvolta aptitudinile fiecaruia.
Inainte de a incheia as dori sa ii rog din suflet pe toti cei ce sunt
parinti: incetati sa va mai invatati copiii sa injure in ultimul hal
sau sa foloseasca forta fizica. Nu este amuzant,iar un copil format azi
in acest fel ,maine nu se va putea integra normal in societate,va fi
marginalizat,etichetat si este foarte putin probabil sa isi mai
depaseasca vreodata conditia.
Inca ceva si apoi promit ca inchei. Este vorba despre mass-media din
Olanda. Va voi uimi cu aceste cuvinte pentru ca nu stiti cum este sa nu
ai habar de “vedetele” olandezilor. Sunt aici de un an si jumatate si
nu am vazut nici un articol despre fotbalisti sau prietenele
acestora,in afara publicatiilor sportive . In publicatiile mondene se
pune accentul pe evenimentele pozitive ce au loc in viata sau in
preajma persoanelor publice.
In speranta ca nu v-am ametit sau plictisit cu aceste randuri,pe care
sotul meu mi-a permis sa le postez aici,va imbratisez cu drag si sper
sa luati din cuvintele mele ceea ce gasiti dumneavoastra mai bun. Cam
atat mi-a permis timpul sa va povestesc,pe scurt,din observatiile
facute de noi,aici in Tara Lalelelor
Andreea Ogararu
February 20th, 2009 at 12:37 pm
absolut senzational materialul, mi-a placut foarte mult, felicitari. imi place de voi amandoi, de familia voastra. nu vreau sa jignesc pe nimeni, am venit din Ardeal la Bucuresti si am fost socata de rautatea oamenilor. Si vorbesc foarte serios. Muncesc la Bucuresti, am aici prieteni, dar cand ma duc la mine acasa e alta lume. Cred ca tine de educatie. Bravo Andreea! Sa fiti sanatosi, voi doi si copiii vostri.
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